Now that I’ve had some time to reflect on the whole experience, I would like to share some thoughts about what it meant to me. Although Curt and I have discussed many of these lessons, I am sure each of us has a different perspective on the experience. In no particular order, here are some of mine.
1. If you feel called to help, don’t let anything or anyone stop you. In retrospect, we spent too much time trying to figure out how we could fit our abilities, resources and resolve into other people’s relief efforts. Once we decided to trust our faith that we could make a difference, and that somehow, the necessary support would be forthcoming, we were able to focus on the mission. You still must do your homework, but you must avoid “paralysis by analysis” and know, that if it is the right thing to do, just do it. Somehow it will all work out.
2. Remember to look at the big picture. Inevitably, your view is narrow. While your efforts are important, they are only a small part of an immense undertaking in which many people are making contributions to the overall effort. Many of them do not get to see the results of their work, so be sure to share your experience with them and thank them for their help.
3. Expect and accept that everything will not go as planned. Just do the best you can and realize that others are doing the same.
4. For pilots, watch out for “mission completion bias”. Don’t let the urgency of the effort alter your judgement. Remember that the laws of physics and gravity are not changed by the fact that you really want to get something accomplished.
5. Finally, know that you will receive more than you give. Your effort makes a difference. Expect to be changed in significant ways. Don’t be surprised when your perspective about your own problems is altered. The rewards of shared sacrifice, effort and accomplishment of difficult goals in service to others are priceless.
Remember, life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning to dance in the rain.
Fair Skies,
Ken
Ken, I so wish I was right there with you doing whatever is needed and whenever. If I can come and work for even a week (while someone takes care of Yogi & BooBoo) I will do whatever I need to do – and spend whatever it costs. If I can be of help to your group, just let me know.
I think this is so awesome. Be safe and enjoy every challenge that presents itself.
Big, Big, Big, Big HUGS, Pat
By: Pat Wirtz on March 15, 2010
at 11:51 pm
Thanks Pat. You absolutely CAN be an important part of the effort. We are still working on the next phase, and will have additional information soon. I would love to work with you as we go forward. Let’s talk next week. Thanks for your kindness and support. It means a lot to me.
Fair Skies,
Ken
By: kwittekiend on March 16, 2010
at 2:13 am
hi Ken – Corbin directed me to your blog….I enjoy reading about your trip and your successes. I wasn’t quite speedy enough to get our CubScouts involved in your trip last month. But I am curious to learn more about your future endeavors, and would like to find a way to get our kiddos engaged; Not sure yet the hows or the why, but what you are doing matches nicely with several of the CubScout values – so I know we can make this work; and be a learning experience for the boys, and an opportunity to serve.
By: Robin on March 20, 2010
at 3:56 am
Thanks Robin. Please tell the scouts we would love to have them involved. It is kind of you to think of us. We will keep you informed as we plan the next mission.
By: kwittekiend on March 20, 2010
at 1:33 pm