Now that I’ve had some time to reflect on the whole experience, I would like to share some thoughts about what it meant to me. Although Curt and I have discussed many of these lessons, I am sure each of us has a different perspective on the experience. In no particular order, here are some of mine.
1. If you feel called to help, don’t let anything or anyone stop you. In retrospect, we spent too much time trying to figure out how we could fit our abilities, resources and resolve into other people’s relief efforts. Once we decided to trust our faith that we could make a difference, and that somehow, the necessary support would be forthcoming, we were able to focus on the mission. You still must do your homework, but you must avoid “paralysis by analysis” and know, that if it is the right thing to do, just do it. Somehow it will all work out.
2. Remember to look at the big picture. Inevitably, your view is narrow. While your efforts are important, they are only a small part of an immense undertaking in which many people are making contributions to the overall effort. Many of them do not get to see the results of their work, so be sure to share your experience with them and thank them for their help.
3. Expect and accept that everything will not go as planned. Just do the best you can and realize that others are doing the same.
4. For pilots, watch out for “mission completion bias”. Don’t let the urgency of the effort alter your judgement. Remember that the laws of physics and gravity are not changed by the fact that you really want to get something accomplished.
5. Finally, know that you will receive more than you give. Your effort makes a difference. Expect to be changed in significant ways. Don’t be surprised when your perspective about your own problems is altered. The rewards of shared sacrifice, effort and accomplishment of difficult goals in service to others are priceless.
Remember, life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning to dance in the rain.
Fair Skies,
Ken
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